Getting your Husband to Notice You

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Don't get me wrong, my husband is very loving and caring but I was just thinking of doing something special and making him go 'wow'. Are there any tips you guys have that will get my husband to really notice me?

Tip 1 - Do something out of the ordinary

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by 3ak | permalink

Maybe there is a place you have never been? Maybe there is a place that you have talked about? Even if it involves flying out... Plan accordingly and make that weekend special!

Tip 2 - Make sure he is fully satisfied at home but make him work for it

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Dan Jones | permalink

Make sure he is fully satisfied at home but make him work for it. We like to chase, we like to win. Routine life is only fun for so long.

Tip 3 - Notice him first if you want him to notice you

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Samantha Hogue | permalink

Notice him first if you want him to notice you
We all want to feel seen, heard and appreciated — it’s human nature. So if you want him to notice you, then you sure as hell better be noticing him. Some ways to notice him could be: a compliment, inquiring about his day, showing interest in something that he’s interested in, listening to him with attention (ie: eye contact, body language), etc.

by Carin Goldstein

For further reading: http://bethesmartwife.com/2013/05/how-to-get-your-husband-to-notice-you-again/ ^[3]

Tip 4 - Have a secret code phrase or a sign

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Advice | permalink

Have a secret code phrase or a sign. Want to tell him you think he’s hot? Try a secret code phrase, like “Are we due for an oil change?” No one else will know what you really mean but him, so you can say it in front of the kids, in front of your parents, in front of anybody!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire

For further reading: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2012/02/29-days-to-great-sex-day-10-16-ways-to-flirt-with-your-husband/ ^[4]

Tip 5 - Be a mystery : Men get board of easy pickings

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Relationships | permalink

Be a mystery. Men still love a challenge; just don't make it too complicated. Does your husband know everything there is to know about you? If so, develop a new skill or idea or come up with a secret he's dying to discover. When you become a mystery to your husband there are things about you that he still wants to know, things you're thinking that he'd like for you to divulge, secrets in your soul that he'll be challenged to draw out. You don't give him a chance if you tell him everything. Be mysterious, in some ways. Be to him a treasure chest full of secrets he's dying to....

For further reading: http://www.strengthforthesoul.com/couples-the-abcs-of-being-irresistible-in-your-husband's-eyes ^[5]

Tip 6 - Surprise him with a nice dinner and during the dinner talk about him.

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Heidi Roberts | permalink

"It's okay to miss a Saturday soccer practice so that you and he can enjoy a romantic weekend getaway. In fact, it's essential....You might love candlelight dinners, but they might not hit the mark with your man. Think outside the heart-shaped box. Send the kids to grandma's for the night, snuggle in bed and watch a cheesy sci-fi flick while snacking on some even cheesier nachos."

For further reading: http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/debra-macleod/sex-with-husband_b_2234363.html ^[6]

Tip 7 - Stop trying to Control your Husband

Published: 10 years, 9 month(s) ago | Submitted by Shelley | permalink

Stop doing everything that makes you or him feel like as if you are trying to control your husband. Let your husband leave show him that you trust him.