Tip - Rearrange your relationship as circumstances change

whatever our circumstances we all have choices. If we are lucky enough to be in a relationship, those choices have to take account of the other person. And they need constant revision as our lives change. Otherwise they won't work. We learned that the long way, often the hard way. But it was worth it. I sometimes say, half seriously, when others are talking of their second or third marriages, that I, too, am on my third marriage. But, in my case, they have all been to the same woman – and that has made all the difference.

Charles Handy